When Life Gives You Tangerines
A tale that reflects the sweet and bitter essence of life’s journey
Mohaimin Sultana Miva, Dhaka
Published: 30 Mar 2025
“In the end, we all end up living as orphans. Even though parents die first, their children carry on. Life goes on and on.” - The initial episode of the drama started with profound and introspective discussions on relatability, which were effortlessly balanced by a tender romance and slice-of-life storytelling. What truly stands out is the exceptional performance and dialogues delivered by IU who brings heartfelt warmth and layers of depth to Ae-sun. At the same time, Park Bogum’s portrayal of unwavering Gwan-sik showcases both deeply moving and immersive emotional experiences.
Not to mention the rest of the cast’s mesmerising acting speaks volumes to their characters, even in the moments of silence that communicate more than words ever could. It is a kind of show that reminds us of the themes of human experience, true love, family, growth, self-discovery, small joys in life and the refined exploration of fate & choice illuminates the unexpected turns of life.
The story revolves around the Ae-sun character who breaks the chain of generational trauma and patriarchal expectations to provide her children with a future of equality, freedom and empowerment. From an early age, her ambition and determination were evident, yet it was her mother’s hardships that gave her a deeper awareness of the destructive cycles in their family. Ae-sun naturally set her dreams aside when she became a mother and was determined to provide everything for her child that she never had. Providing her daughter with all the opportunities and support that she and Gwan-sik could offer became Ae-sun’s foremost priority.
It is not only focused on the family but the narrative built of portraying the three generations of women- the sacrifices of mothers, the sacrifices of their dreams to fulfill the role as housewives, and how their reverberations stretch across the decades in the midst of an extremely male-dominated society that deeply rooted in culture. It also touches on the complicated relationships between Ae-sun and her mother-in-law as well as the support she receives from other women: haenyeo women, landlord grandmother and stepmom Min-ok.
Moreover, the drama explores the beauty of pure romantic love between Ae-sun and Gwan-sik where two souls become one who are ready to face whatever life throws their way. The last 3 volumes of the series focuses on Geum Myeong’s relationship with her parents and her love life. Her parents’ unconditional care for her portrayed beautifully.
Every frame captures an aesthetic authenticity with a very smooth transition between past and present stories that makes you feels like you’re part of a living that immerses you in a world rather than merely watching a series. The stunning cinematography brings Jeju Island’s landscapes to life with an elevating story’s emotional impact. As well as with the moments of unexpected humor, it is a beautifully sad story that leaves a bittersweet feeling - just like tangerines.
“It’s an odd thing. Parents dwell on what they couldn’t give. And children dwell on what they couldn’t get” - the dialogue itself showcases that the drama fills you with warmth while gently wrapping around you with its sincerity and then delivers a soul-crushing moment when you least expect it. “When Life Gives You Tangerines” is that extraordinary rare gem - making you look at your life from a whole other perspective and reminding you to be a little more grateful towards your parents. Every moment is crafted with an artistry that echoes in your mind long after you've turned the last page- an experience that will stay with you forever.
The writer is a student of Viqarunnisa Noon School & College from HSC batch 24.