Growing divorce trend raises concern in Jhenaidah

The number of divorces in Jhenaidah district has risen at an alarming rate over the past three years, with official data showing that an average of 11 divorces occurred daily in 2025, alongside 21 marriages.
According to the District Registrar’s Office, a total of 8,026 marriages were registered in 2025, while 3,984 divorces were recorded during the same period. The figures indicate a significant shift in family and social dynamics in the district.
Data revealed that more women than men initiated divorce proceedings. In 2025, 2,234 women filed for divorce compared to 1,346 men.
Reasons behind the rise
A review of divorce notices showed that “lack of understanding between husband and wife” was the most frequently cited reason.
Women cited issues such as drug addiction, domestic violence, dowry, mental torture, extramarital affairs, financial hardship, personality clashes, lack of maintenance, mistrust, forced marriage, and disputes over kabin (marriage contract).
In contrast, men mentioned reasons including extramarital affairs, loss of income, a careless lifestyle, lack of attention to family responsibilities, childlessness, excessive use of social media, and not following religious practices.
Experts voice concern
Sakila Khatun Dola, a college teacher in Jhenaidah town, said divorce registrations have increased sharply in recent times.
“Earlier, eight to ten divorces were registered per month. Now, sometimes 10 to 12 divorces are registered in a single day,” she said, adding that many couples separate within six months to one year of marriage.
“People now react strongly even to minor issues. Patience and tolerance in society appear to be declining,” she observed. Senior lawyer Sheikh Selim of the Jhenaidah District Judge Court said the culture of resolving family disputes is weakening.
“Today’s young couples often lack patience. Even small conflicts can lead to divorce,” he said.
Dr Walid Hasan Pikul, an official of the Islamic University in Kushtia and a civil society representative, said the growing divorce rate reflects broader social challenges rather than isolated individual failures.
He emphasised the need to strengthen family values, mutual respect, financial stability, and community support, along with expanding counselling services and public awareness initiatives.
Impact on children and society
Abdul Hai, social service officer of Sadar Upazila, said children suffer the most following parental separation, often facing disruptions in education and going through mental stress. He suggested that couples seek medical advice and counselling before divorce.
Munshi Firoza, additional deputy director of the District Women Affairs Office, said various awareness programmes are being conducted at the field level to address the issue.
“Efforts are needed to curb this trend, as it may ultimately affect social stability,” she said, adding that long-term solutions require family dialogue, pre-marriage counselling, and strong economic and psychological support systems.