Eid used to mean my dadabari (grandfather’s ancestral house), alive with laughter and bustling with the sweet smell of my dadi’s shemai (vermicelli); it meant us rushing to chachas (paternal uncle) and fupus (paternal aunt) for our long-awaited salamis (Eidi). It used to mean the pure joy of having a number of cousins under the same roof, hours of games and food that always tasted better when shared. But now it feels like Eid is losing its charm -- a fast, strange, and scary world with all of us occupied with screens and schedules. Have we lost it? Not quite yet. A little effort and Eid could still mean something, more than just new clothes and feasts. It could mean thanksgiving, bonding, and giving back.

Giving back: The true spirit of Eid
While Eid symbolises cheer, it also is the symbol of charity. The age-old tradition of zakat and fitra indicates the point that we all have to share a portion from what we have. The idea of charity and help should not be constrained in monetary ways; why not donate time? Make rounds to orphans, share meals with them, visit the underprivileged, donate new clothes or extra food for a family in need in your community.

Rekindling family traditions
In the rush of everyday life, we hardly remember to enjoy the simple pleasures of being part of a family. This Eid, make a conscious effort to restore traditions. Organise a family gathering that includes traditional dishes that used to be served at dadi’s grand feasts. Spend time playing childhood board games with your cousins, ask for family pictures in Eid dresses, and recreate the happiness of sitting together and exchanging stories instead of scrolling through mobile phones. When distance becomes an issue, always opt for a virtual reunion on Eid. The most important thing is to create moments that matter.

Meaningful gifting
Eid gifts do not need to be costly; what is important is the thought behind them. Don't just buy expensive random gifts; give something personal - a handwritten letter, an old picture framed, or a book with a special note written inside. Teaching children the idea behind handmade gifts adds significance to Eid. Encourage them to make something for their grandparents, siblings, friends or even neighbours.

Reflecting on the occasion
In between feasts and fun, think of what Eid really means. It is not only about celebration but about renewal: renewing our beliefs, our relations, and our thankfulness. Take time to reflect and pray. What things are you thankful for?  What can you do better in the coming months? These reflections can add more depth to the celebration and festivities.  There is no reason that Eid should lose its charm because times have changed. It is up to us to keep its very essence alive. Eid is not just about the flashy new clothes or the laden tables; it is about the love we share, the kindness we show, and the memories we create together. Let us, therefore, celebrate this year by opening our hearts, making genuine connections, and giving gifts to others.